Appearances

I am convinced that all people tend to judge people upon appearances.

Quite a reality check. There goes another one.

For most of my life, up until this point of course, I was under the impression that appearances never really mattered most. I imagined that personality would always win in the end.

I was wrong of course.

No, I'm not talking about dating, nor am I speaking of the moment a guy at a bar/club decides he has met the woman of his dreams because she is wearing a revealing, little dress, has enormous breasts, and is more than willing to go to bed with him only to realize a week later that there is nothing in her brains but conceit and the idea of money.

No... I'm not talking about that.

What I mean is that people, even if they have known you for years, cloud their memory of your smarts, and humor, and knowledge about certain things and they tell you the most absurd lie and expect you to believe it.

Why do people do this?

Seeing as how I don't have an answer for this, I'll end the blog here.